Schommer.Life

6/22/25

I have long believed in the power of positive thinking and the consequences of bad juju. Many years ago, I read The Secret by Rhonda Byrne, and have read it many more times since; this book aligns with my beliefs and values. I cannot pinpoint exactly when the Law of Attraction became a way of life for me, but I know when I started working on change. I encourage everyone to read The Secret, and have read it with a few people to discuss and encourage change in others. I often explain this philosophy to my friends and family reminding them that they could adapt this philosophy to their God and beliefs. The point is to manifest what you want, not what you don’t want by sending the Universe, your God, Buddha, or Vishnu the correct message. Using the Law of Attraction, or what I would rather call, the power of positive thinking, became a way of life. This has been my coping skill, my healing grace, my way of prayer, and I go back to the basics when I need a reminder of my personal mission, values, beliefs, and what I am bringing (or lack thereof) into my life.

I have struggled with depression, self-doubt, and self-shaming most of my life. This has made it difficult for me to socialize, make friends and has held me back in many areas of my life. At times I feel socially awkward and find it difficult to express my true self. People mistake this with my chatty and loud personality, and don’t believe how difficult it is for me to be in a group setting. Don’t confuse overtalking anxiety with being outgoing and extroverted. With my depression came my lack of love for myself which led to unhealthy and broken relationships throughout my life. I was in my 40’s before I truly understood I needed to love myself before I could love another. I needed to find happiness in myself and to be comfortable alone.  I needed to focus on self-care, hope, confidence and trust. When I realized what I needed, I started to heal and see changes happening for me. My healing process has been contingent with my beliefs and values including the law of attraction and prayer. I do not feel I need to be in a sanctuary or church for prayer. I believe the world is Gods house; I can talk to God anywhere. 

What is the law of attraction? There are so many books about the law of attraction. Take your pick, I bet they’re all great and they’re all going to tell you the same thing. What you ask for is what you’re going to get. Positive thoughts equal positive outcomes. Negative thoughts equal negative outcomes. My go to is The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. I feel connected and empowered when I read this book. It is becoming more natural to be positive and grateful for the life I have, and to tell the Universe and God how grateful I am. I get up and do something. I no longer feel sorry for myself. I am my biggest advocate.  I recognize when my mental health is not at its best, and get back to the basics.  This has been the most powerful and prevailing way to connect with myself, God and the Universe.

Over the past two years, I have found myself drawn to the bible. I’ve read passages in the bible over the years. My mother raised us catholic, but I didn’t really know what I was supposed to do with that. I’ve found a couple bible study books, and have started to end my day reading a passage in the bible. Recently, I realized my focus on the law of attraction and prayer are connected. However, I looked up the law of attraction vs the bible and found considerable information contradicting this. The law of attraction is said to be one being selfish and only thinking of oneself. That’s not at all what my focus is. When I ask God for peace, I ask God for peace for all. I don’t feel selfish or greedy, but I do make my intentions clear, or at least I do my best to make them clear. You have to do the work too. Opportunities will present to you, take them; however, you must also work hard for those opportunities to become available. The law of attraction directs you to focus on yourself and what you want, God directs us to work hard. Put these together and tell the Universe and God what you want, focus on the positive, do the work and lead the beautiful life God has provided for you. Get in the boat! (If you know, you know) 

I have worked for the same nonprofit for 14 years, and have received many opportunities to grow and become a leader within the agency. I have worked hard to prove my dedication, loyalty and commitment. Things have not been handed to me. I have earned these opportunities, and I am grateful them. Give a little, receive a little. Malachi 3 and Corinthians 16 explains we must not be greedy. We must be grateful and giving. God is promising believers that give, not out of duty, but out of generosity, they will receive. I will say it again. Tell the Universe and God what you want, focus on the positive, do the work and lead the beautiful life God has provided you. Be intentional, join me in making changes. Become your best, for you and those you love. 

XOXO 

Schommer Life